.But what Astrid doesn't understand but is an honest truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who possesses two sons-- can easily confirm: The fact that your connection with your parents improvements and also advances as you each grow older, as well as ideally right. "Your world centers around [your kids] when they're babies [and] it's a great deal work yet lovely," O'Hara states. "Later on, you really miss that, given that at that point you can not obtain all of them to perform anything you want them to carry out, since they start establishing their very own minds, their very own viewpoints." And also at some point, you wind up in the area O'Hara, whose children remain in their 20s and 30s, locates herself now, able to gain from her kids. "They are actually merely such awesome youthful people," she claims. "I am actually certainly not their colleague, but I really love possessing chats along with them as well as understanding just how they think about lifestyle.".